How to Respond to Threatening or Blackmail Emails

Steps to take if you receive threatening or blackmail emails

If you receive an email claiming to have compromised your account, device, or personal information—or demanding payment (often in cryptocurrency)—do not panic. These messages are very common and are usually part of large-scale scams sent to thousands of people at once.

How to Recognize These Messages

  • Claims that your device was hacked or recorded without your knowledge
  • Demands for payment to prevent release of information
  • Use of urgency or threats to create fear
  • Sometimes includes a password (often from an old data breach) to appear credible

Important: In most cases, these are mass-produced scam emails, not targeted attacks.


What You Should Do

1) Do NOT Respond or Pay

  • Do not reply to the sender or engage in any way
  • Do not send money or cryptocurrency
  • Paying does not guarantee anything and may lead to further demands

2) Understand This Is Likely a Mass Scam

  • These emails are sent in bulk to many recipients worldwide
  • Similar examples can often be found online (e.g., forums, Reddit, or security blogs), sometimes dating back years
  • Seeing identical messages reported by others can help confirm that you are not being personally targeted

3) Secure Your Accounts

  • Change your passwords, especially if:
    • The email included one of your passwords
    • You reuse passwords across multiple sites
  • Enable Multi-Factor Authentication (MFA) wherever possible
  • Use a unique password for every account (consider a password manager)

4) Scan Your Devices

  • Run antivirus/antimalware scans on your computer and devices
  • Ensure your operating system and software are fully updated
  • For School of Education devices, contact MERIT to assist with scans and remediation

5) Report the Email


6) Contact Support if Needed


If You Feel Physically Threatened

Most blackmail emails are scams and not credible threats. However:

  • If you believe the threat is real or are concerned for your personal safety, contact law enforcement or call 911 immediately
  • Do not attempt to handle a credible threat on your own

Additional Reassurance

It is completely normal to feel alarmed after receiving one of these messages. Even experienced users can find them convincing. If you feel uneasy:

You are not alone, and help is available.


Example of a threatening/blackmail email:

From: Bad Person
Sent: Tuesday, February 12, 2019 10:17 AM
To: You
Subject: (Your username and password)

 

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Keywords:
email, threat, ransom, phish, spam, scam, blackmail 
Doc ID:
89977
Owned by:
Jackson K. in MERIT
Created:
2019-02-25
Updated:
2026-05-27
Sites:
MERIT, School of Education